找到源自内心深处的宁静与满足（微信文章未删减版）

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我们往往在生活的洪流中，不自觉地寻觅着快乐的源泉，却常常发现，这快乐的泉源竟悄然寄托于他人之上。你或许未曾深思，那份所谓的快乐，其实不过是外在肉体与内在心理双重依赖的产物。

你依赖着别人的笑容，以为那便是温暖的阳光；你依赖着别人的赞许，以为那便是自我价值的体现。你依赖着别人的陪伴，以为那便是不再孤独的良方。

然而，在这无尽的依赖中，却成为了孤岛上的奴隶，心灵的枷锁无形中将你紧紧束缚。一旦这些所依赖的对境发生变化，痛苦便如同乌云般袭来。

自由是从这份依赖中解脱出来，学会独立站立于世间。不依附于任何人的情绪与评判，不恐惧失去任何外在的支撑。唯有如此，你才能找到源自内心深处的宁静与满足，是一种不受外界干扰的自在与安详。

---加措活佛

A broad-minded person can clearlysee the differences between herself and others; she will never demean herselfnor view others as superior. At the same time, she will not be blindlyconfident nor will she belittle others. She does not have time to gloat overothers’ misfortune or criticize , for she is too busy pursuing her own life andoccupation. She will not keep count of whether everything that happens is fairor not; what she is concerned with is whether or not she is happy and living afull life. Are you like this?

Jia Cuo Rinpoche

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